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A sensible, understanding, compassionate refuge for adult children of trauma and those who burn with a desire to be liberated from the chains of the past who recognize the necessity to overcome emotional reactivity, cognitive dissonance, self doubt, self-criticism, and specifically codependency, who are ready to expand their consciousness through the nurturing and mastering of an organized mind.  Lisa A. Romano is a globally recognized Breakthrough Life Coach, award-winning author, and a leading expert in emotional recovery. Named the #1 Most Influential Person of 2020 and one of the World's Most Inspiring Women of 2023, Lisa has dedicated her career to helping others break free from the chains of codependency and narcissistic abuse. As the creator of the Conscious Healing Academy, she has developed a groundbreaking approach to emotional recovery that focuses on healing the deep-rooted causes of the false self so to make a path forward to the authentic self. Lisa’s work is driven by her belief in the transformative power of an organized mind. She teaches that true healing begins when individuals can confront and dismantle the subconscious beliefs that keep them trapped in patterns of self-sabotage and emotional pain. Through her coaching, writing, and educational programs, Lisa empowers her clients to awaken to their authentic selves, guiding them on a journey of self-discovery and personal empowerment. With a mission to help others live above the veil of consciousness, Lisa's influence extends far beyond her coaching practice. Her insights and teachings have inspired millions around the world to take control of their lives, break free from toxic relationships, and embrace a path of self-love and true fulfillment. Contact coach@lisaaromano.com or visit https://www.lisaaromano.com 
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Codependency and Authenticity: Unmasking the People Pleaser

Aug 11, 2025

In this powerful episode, Lisa A. Romano explores how codependency erodes authenticity and keeps people trapped in the exhausting cycle of people-pleasing. If you struggle to speak your truth, constantly seek approval, or fear setting boundaries, this episode will help you understand the deeper root of why you hide your authentic self—and how to begin unmasking the people pleaser within.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  • Why people-pleasing is a trauma response rooted in childhood survival

  • How codependency develops when authenticity is punished or ignored

  • The difference between genuine kindness and compulsive approval-seeking

  • Why suppressing your needs leads to resentment, burnout, and emotional confusion

  • Practical steps to reconnect with your true self and honor your voice

Why This Episode Matters

Many adult children of emotionally immature, narcissistic, or unavailable caregivers learn early on that being “the good one” is the only way to feel safe. Over time, this coping mechanism becomes a false self—one that performs for acceptance while abandoning its truth.

But healing is possible.

By understanding the connection between childhood emotional neglect and adult codependency, you can begin the courageous journey back to your authentic self—one boundary at a time.

Take the Next Step

Lisa’s 12 Week Breakthrough Method is a neuroscience-informed system designed to help you unlearn codependent behaviors, reclaim your voice, and build a self-concept rooted in worth and truth.

Learn more:
https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

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